Real people.
Real connections. IRL.

Meet Cute IRL is…

  • Intentional.

    Every guest is handpicked and paired with care.

  • Romantic.

    Love in the details.

  • Alive.

    Energy you can feel and be a part of.

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Private Dates

Table for Six

Strangers today. Something more tomorrow.

There’s something magical about meeting someone in real life. The way a stranger slowly becomes someone you want to know more about.

Private Dates were made for the ones craving real connection, the kind that dating apps forgot. No endless swiping. No awkward meetups. Just you and 5 handpicked guests, carefully matched by age and vibe, brought together for a shared moment that actually means something.

Everything has been planned, all you have to do is show up and be yourself.

  • Fill out our invite form to join the guest list. When we find your perfect match group, an exclusive invite will be sent to your inbox 💌

  • You and 5 carefully chosen guests gather for a curated date designed for connection. There will be some fun little activities to ease you into the vibe, making it easy to relax and be yourself. At the end, you pick who you’d love to see again. Our Meet Code keeps things classy and fun, so you can focus on the experience.

  • Meet Code means you focus on connecting during the date, holding off on sharing contact info until after. At the end, you hand us a match card, and we take care of the rest. Simple, classy and stress-free.

  • This is exclusively for our 21-45 singles, looking to experience a new way of dating.

  • No stress, cutie! You’re on our guest list and we keep you in mind for future dates. The right connection takes time, but it’s coming!

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Signature Soirée

The most romantic night in Christchurch. Our Meet Cute Signature Soirée is a private, perfectly curated night made for romantics like you.

There’s music, conversation, energy in the air and a match card with your name on it. Dress to impress, show up and enjoy what the night has to offer.

  • This event only happens a couple times a year, so when invites drop, our followers and email subscribers hear it first.

    Stay close, stay ready... and don’t say we didn’t warn you 😉

  • You’re going to have to come and find out 😏

    You can expect:

    • A classy, high-vibe environment

    • Cocktail attire dress code

    • Pre-matched mini dates

    • Activities designed to help you mingle naturally with others

    • A delectable grazing table, with tasty cocktails and drinks available for purchase at the bar

    • Meet Code: We’ve made shooting your shot more classy. Instead of asking for or exchanging numbers, if there’s a match, you’ll receive contact cards at the end of the night.

    • And before the event, you’ll receive a quick guide with tips to make the most of your night. Just a little gift from us! 😘

  • This experience is designed for individuals aged 21 to 45 who value meaningful connection and intentional experiences. And for those looking to be part of an unforgettable night like no other.

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Cupid’s Pick

A matchmaking service for a one-on-one dating experience.

This is for the ones who’ve said, “I just want to meet someone in real life.” We hear you. Our matchmaking is one-on-one, intimate, and designed for people who want to meet people in a new way.

You get a curated date with someone handpicked for you based on your preferences, values and energy. We’ll thoughtfully plan your date, all you have to do is show up.

  • Once you fill out the form, you’ll be personally reviewed and matched by our team (hi, it’s me 👋). If you’re a match with someone in our guest list, you’ll be invited to a one-on-one date curated just for you. The dates are intentionally crafted and always in safe, public places.

  • Every date is crafted around your vibe, your preferences, energy, and the way you like to connect.


    We also take into account your budget, availability, and what’s seasonally romantic. Nothing’s off-the-shelf. It’s all curated with care, for moments that feel like you.

  • If you're 21–45, love the idea of slowing down and meeting people face-to-face and want something deeper than a swipe... yeah, this is for you. This is also a great option for those who prefer intimate one-on-one dates.

  • Nope—but you’ll know we’ve handpicked them for a reason. Part of the magic is letting yourself be surprised by who you meet when you’re not behind a screen.

  • Right now, matches are based on availability, compatibility, and your spot on the guest list. Once you apply, we’ll reach out when we’ve found someone who feels right for you.

  • Within 24 hours after your date, you’ll get a digital match card to decide if you want to share your contact info. At every Meet Cute experience, we follow our Meet Code: no exchanging digits during the date. It keeps things classy and safe.

  • Safety is our love language. Before your date, we’ll verify your identity with a quick selfie and valid ID. You’ll also be asked to share an emergency contact, and we’ll check in with you before and after your date.

    All dates happen in public, vetted locations so you can focus on the connection. And don’t worry, your contact info stays private unless both people want to reconnect after (Meet Code).